FAQs

I'm based in Zürich, but if you're unable to meet me here, then you can fly/train/drive me to you all over Switzerland and Europewide. I love these kind of dates!

If you're tempted to reach out, make sure your intentions are sincere.If you initiate contact and do not follow through with a booking, I will not be available for future communication.I value purposeful connections — I will not entertain future messages. Mutual respect is the first step toward a meaningful encounter. My preferred way to be reached is via email. I reserve more intimate channels — such as phone calls, messaging apps, and texting — exclusively for established suitors I already trust. The booking form on my website is the perfect place to begin. Take your time, express yourself clearly, and don’t hold back. A complete, thoughtful introduction gives me insight into who you are, what you desire, and whether we might be a beautiful match. If this is your first time meeting a companion, please don’t be shy — I warmly welcome respectful newcomers. Just let me know in your initial message, and feel free to express your hopes or questions for our first date. While I do my best to respond promptly, my calendar is often filled with travel and engagements. If discretion is a concern, feel free to let me know the best time for me to reach you. Otherwise, you can expect a warm, professional response during standard business hours.

Mutual discretion and safety are a must. I ask for the bare minimum of information to safely spend time with a stranger. I, of course, respect your desire for a certain amount of anonymity. However, pre-screening is non-negotiable. If you do not understand this, then please do not contact me. Screening for dates in Switzerland * To book a date with me the following is requested: - A 20% deposit is required to confirm the date. –– For any travel dates a deposit of 50% and travel costs must be paid in advance. - It would be great to get to know a little bit about you, your interests, and what you would like to do. While I respect your privacy, it would be helpful to have some information about you before we spend time together. For international travel requests, please contact me directly; depending on the destination and duration, my rates and screening may vary. - I am happy to accommodate duos with other companions or couples dates, but please note that my price includes an additional fee of 1000 CHF/EUR. - Cancellations: deposits are non-refundable. However, I will apply the deposit to a new date within four months if the cancellation is made 48hours in advance. You have my word that I will honour your privacy and personal information. Once the booking has taken place, I will delete all of our correspondence and your documentation.

A simple, yet rare offering: quality and authenticity. While I’m a part-time professional, I’m entirely devoted to creating moments that feel anything but transactional. I aim to be the woman — and muse — of your dreams, offering deep, passionate connections for those who truly crave them. Time with me is never rushed or awkwardly measured. I believe in comfort, chemistry, and presence. My intention is to offer an experience that is uniquely satisfying, emotionally rich, and — if we do it right — utterly unforgettable. Also, you'll find a straightforward reply to this question on my blog! (https://www.lilyvivier.com/post/gfe-a-great-fckng-experience)😘

What happens during our date depends solely on our CHEMISTRY. If you’re looking for a list of services or have one full of demands. I’m afraid you’re in the wrong place.

I can rarely accommodate last-minute appointments. But that information does not take away the chance of luck working in your favour if you give it a try! However, I love to schedule things in advance. Planning ahead is the best way to guarantee a date with me—sending a request 48 hours in advance has worked beautifully for those who followed this instruction.

Privacy is a two-way street — and I treat it with the utmost care and respect. Just as you value discretion, so do I. My private life is as important to me as yours is to you, and my impeccable reputation is built on trust, confidentiality, and mutual respect. The details we share — before, during, and after our time together — remain strictly between us. That being said, I offer more flexible etiquette and screening options for dates in select Swiss cities. Deposit payments can be made via PayPal, Revolut, or gift cards. Please note that for these alternative arrangements, a supplement of +200 CHF/EUR will be added to my rate.

For personal and professional reasons, I choose not to show my face in any of my photos. Preserving my anonymity isn’t just about protecting myself — it’s also about protecting you. Discretion is essential, especially when we may find ourselves together in public or recognizable settings. That said, I assure you my natural beauty is something to look forward to: glowing skin, a captivating smile, high cheekbones, and seductive brown eyes. What you see is what you get — no filters, enhancements, or cosmetic tweaks. No botox, no fake lashes, lips, or nails. (No shade at all to those who love them — just not my personal style.) My glow comes from within — a life of meditation, hydration, and a touch of excellent DNA.

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I feel very strongly about a mutual respect. Our conversation and time together are sacred and should be a secret between us two. I would never compromise your privacy and talk about our private moments to anyone else. I want that same right afforded to me.

I’m an equal-opportunity enchantress when it comes to connection. My suitors come from a wide range of backgrounds — all genders and orientations, ethnicities, ages that suggest a life well-lived, and professions as varied as their desires. What unites them isn’t a label, but their generosity — both financial and soulful. They tend to value subtle luxuries, crave authentic experiences, and carry an adventurous spirit that mirrors my own. I also warmly welcome disabled clients. If you have specific needs or considerations, I encourage you to share them openly so I can ensure your comfort and enjoyment — our time together should feel effortless and inclusive. That said, I’m intentionally selective. I prefer to keep an intimate circle of admirers and only see a few exceptional individuals each month. Quality over quantity — always.

I do not offer tours, but I can accommodate date* requests to my domestic and international trips, when possible. You may inquire as to whether or not I plan to visit your city and of course, you can always fly me with you!

Of course! If we’ve met in the last 8 months I am more than happy to provide reference for you if another provider contacts me for one. Please send me a note prior to let me know you have consented to me divulging details about your character, if a reference is requested.

If you’d prefer an incall visit, I can easily arrange a 4-5 boutique hotel or apartment for us in Zürich downtown or/and around the lake. Please add CHF450 to deposit to assist in the obscenity that is the cost of hotels in Switzerland. For outcalls, I am happy to meet you at 4-5 star hotels. If you're an established suitor, we can also plan our rendezvous at your private residence.