tête-à-tête /ˌtɛtaˈtɛt,ˌteɪtɑːˈteɪt/
noun 1. (a private conversation between two people)
How would you describe yourself and your style in a few words?
I like to observe and absorb my environment, to read the room's energy. I'm an elegant, charming and mysterious woman_ not that I've created this aura on purpose_ it is just who I turned to be; and that suits me pretty well! But if you want to understand me, you’ll have to know: I have no roots; I don’t belong anywhere – you can't put me in a box.
My style is clothing with menswear influences. I like simple strategic silhouettes cut in specific ways – my daily look is a shirt, jeans/leggings and loafers or sneakers, worn with blazers or coats. I am not brand loyal.
I don't wear much make-up, probably because of my actual state of mind. More relaxed and focused on being me. More natural! But you will see me in reds lips once in a while.
Do you have a style icon?
The women's looks and attitudes of Yves Saint Laurent, Giorgio Armani and Carolina Herrera have always inspired me since I was a small child.
What do your friends appreciate about you?
My friends appreciate my uncomplicated, humorous, and spontaneous manner. New things always inspire me, I'm a curious creature, and fun is guaranteed once I get comfortable around someone! In addition, my straightness and honesty are appreciated by my beloved ones.
An indulgence you will never let go of?
Homemade focaccia. Recently, I've been making different kinds of focaccia with all sorts of toppings. It's the best! I also adore having flowers decorating my home. I love, LOVE scented candles; they're turning into my obsession!
A place you can't wait to go back to?
To the beach! To be more precise, the Mediterranean. I've been dreaming about swimming and being in the water. I grew up used to saltwater's flavour; it's in my genes. I try to find the less populated places – I've gone to Corsica, South Italy and Ibiza, looking for the remotest, quietest beaches. I recently discovered the towns of Girona and Besalu and fell in love with the history and architecture of these cities and this part of Spain.
What does eroticism mean to you?
I see it as a playroom where I can think, imagine and dream about sexuality, free of the pre-concepts of our still limited idea of what sex is or should be—researching this vast landscape within myself. I can explore it independently or share this experience with someone who also craves to expand the walls of their ideas.
What is it that excites you about meeting/dating an unknown man?
Man?! Why not a woman? Or both?!
What is it that excites you about meeting/dating an unknown person?
Sounds better! The greatest attraction is getting to know an unknown person! To dive into a joint and unique, erotic world with him(her).
I am seducing and being enticed mysteriously, full of lust and devotion. Evenings without a plan, just letting go, spending beautiful hours together. The drill of it all!
What is your secret recipe for a successful evening for two?
Let yourself drift completely, without obligations. Be relaxed, have mutual trust, the willingness to get involved, humour, and a small dose of craziness.
What excites you about what you do?
I think it's my distinctive way that allows me to let myself fall entirely into a dream world. It's the allure of the unknown, the excitement, and complete surrender. In addition to everyday routine, escort is a fascinating and varied opportunity to immerse in a remote part of life. The exchange with an interesting person, the hours of lightness and affection, and the expressive way of erotically realising oneself is a unique experience!
Who is Lily Vivier?
She is the shield of a person interested in the human connection and sexuality. Someone who likes being called the lover, companion or secret girlfriend, she's selective and fancy in her authentic manner. You'll be enchanted by her inner sun and contagious smile. Lily always sees the bright side of life and everything around her, but she is realistic and analytical. Quality over quantity in life is her mantra; she's cautious with whom she shares her time and herself with.
Have you ever thought about displaying your face?
Once a dear lover of mine asked me the same question.
The reply was and still is a no!
No judgement towards anyone who does it. I admire deeply and respect those who show their faces in this business. However, we live in a world where people can no longer differentiate public from private or think those who make a living by displaying themselves a certain way or in a field that suffers stigmatisation; hinting at the adult industry, have no right to privacy. To think that a simple thing like hanging out with friends or doing anything normal, like, going to the bank, doing errands and then being recognised by some stranger, who may think it is okay to approach/touch me or use my work name in public. That scenario is something that terrifies me.
What should not be missing on an overnight date?
Deep conversations, a bottle of champagne, water and a delicious atmosphere.
Do you have a philosophy of life?
Carpe Diem; modern term YOLO* – nobody knows how much time we have. Let's live fully! I invest in myself every day to be a better woman & human being. To expand and evolve!